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What should I do if my flatmates don't agree to a guest coming?

💬 Discuss it calmly

First of all, try to understand their position:

  • Have there been any problematic precedents?

  • Is the disagreement about frequency, duration, or guest behavior?

  • Do they simply need more advance notice?

An open and benevolent exchange can often defuse tensions.

🧘 Show adaptability

If it's a one-off inconvenience, try to find a compromise:

  • Change the date or duration of the visit

  • Guarantee that the guest will only be present at certain times

  • Suggest that the guest does not stay overnight

Showing that you take other people's needs into account reinforces good relations within the home.

As a rule, the situation will resolve itself through dialogue if everything is done in accordance with the contract and the rules of life.

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